
My mother's stroke affected her short term memory along with her abilities on her right side of her body. She used my dad as a crutch until my dad could not anymore. When she sees me, she knows that she wants to do something, but want me to figure it out. It is like I am always playing a game with her call "Figure out what she means." I understand the cats better than my mom most of the time.

Another thing I wish my mom would snap out of is using her right hand and walking normally without assistance. She leans over so much it creates a hump in her back. My dad was so proud of her walking by her hemi-walker he recorded her on video. I have dreams from time to time that she is walking around without the hemi-walker.
I hope there will be a day when I can sit down with her and discuss things in the past and how far she has come. I know that she progresses in some things, but feels like she digresses in so many things also. My parents had DirecTV for years and my mom forgot how to use the remote after her stroke. She would look at the TV instead of the remote and couldn't figure it out. After my dad passed, I looked to reduce the bills and simplify television for my mom with a bigger, better picture.


hit "OK" on the Roku remote after that, but it does show that she does know how to use the direction pad on the remote.
My mom gets mad at me when she doesn't understand something. Again I will ask her a question of what is she trying to watch and she says "Yeah." I miss my mom who might not have known everything, but tried to understand. I do see progress and am sure I will leave out a lot if I made a list, so I just want her to wake up out of her dream and try harder. Try harder at communicating what she wants and try harder at doing more for herself. I miss having her to be able to talk to about things from time to time.
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